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What Should You Wear to a Funeral?

Attending a funeral can be emotional, and many people are unsure what clothing is considered appropriate.

Quick Answer

Traditional funeral attire is usually smart, respectful and understated, with darker colours often preferred.

 

Traditional Funeral Attire

For Men

Common choices include:

  • Dark suit 
  • Shirt and tie 
  • Smart shoes 

 

For Women

Popular options include:

  • Dresses 
  • Skirts 
  • Smart trousers 
  • Modest footwear 

 

For Children

Smart and comfortable clothing is usually appropriate.

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Modern Funerals

Some families request:

  • Bright colours 
  • Specific themes 
  • Sports team colours 
  • Celebration of life attire 

 

Always follow any guidance provided by the family.

 

What Should Be Avoided?

Generally:

  • Very casual clothing 
  • Offensive slogans 
  • Overly revealing outfits 

Frequently Asked Questions

Here are some frequently asked questions we receive.

Yes, particularly if requested by the family.

Usually only if the funeral is informal.

Follow any dress code specified by the family.

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